Happy Memorial Day Weekend,
We started off this week by pulling off a surprise 88th birthday party for Ralph. Our daughter
Sue came up with the idea and did the arranging. We made calls and it came together nicely
with friends and family sharing the special event with us. Sixteen of us enjoyed a meal at
Quack's Diner in Madison, NY. Several of the guests also attended his 80th Birthday Party
when he was younger!
On the way home, I glanced back to check on him in the van. All I could see was birthday
balloons. He was completely submerged in the balllons and sound asleep. And I didn't
even think to have Paul take a photo. I'm slipping!
After a hectic week of Dr. visits and 2 more units of blood yesterday for Ralph, I'm very happy
to just stay quietly at home and get in a good nap this afternoon. Finding the sink buried
in dishes was the first order of the day. And I started a good book as well.
A perfect Memorial Weekend for this year.
I'm learning more than I wanted to learn about cancer and the caregiver role. I can't imagine
trying to deal with all that is involved without a medical background. A nurse told me yesterday
they have to 'learn fast and be assertive'.
As of 2 weeks ago, my husband's prostate test (PSA) was up to 117. We are still in limbo to start the
new hormone pill. Very expensive, so has to be processed through insurance companies, the
pharmacal company, help from the cancer center social worker, etc. I received a call saying the
copay was $2000. Shock time! So, coordination and help is hopefully going to get it all
implemented, sooner rather than later as the other med obviously hasn't been working for
Since he has so much bone involvement, he can't make enough red blood cells on his own.
Hence, the 3rd round of blood transfusions so far. The first in Oct., then 6 weeks ago, and again yesterday.
We have that done at Fox Hospital in Oneonta. Their ambulatory department staff have been
super each time. They are extremely patient with him. He comes in very weak and needing lots of assistance. They have been wonderful to me also.
Two units of blood takes approximately 5 hours to transfuse. He slept most of that time, all the
way home, and all evening. What a difference this morning. He was more alert, had some pink
in his cheeks and praise be, was abit more hungry. He hasn't been taking in enough nourishment to
maintain his body needs.
Because his protein level was low, he was retaining even more fluid than usual, so we've been
dealing with that also. That doesn't help his congestive heart failure issue. They hit him with
20 mg of IV lasix times 3 along with the blood. One can appreciate the fine balance our bodies
try to maintain to keep us in good health.
Thank you for thoughts and prayers.